Desire Speaking
Desire Speaking
There’s a restlessness in every human heart. It shows up as longing, hunger, ache. Sometimes it’s a quiet dissatisfaction. Other times, it’s an overwhelming yearning for something more. We chase it, distract ourselves from it, try to name it, but it keeps returning.
That ache is not a glitch in the system. It is the system. It’s desire—desire for God—written into the very structure of our humanity.
This is the aching desire at the center of life, and Theology of the Body (TOB) teaches us how to finally hear what it’s saying. Desire is powerful. It doesn’t just live in us—it moves us. And it always moves in a direction. That’s why what we do with desire matters.
“In the end, our desires will take us wherever we aim them (‘destiny’), and if we aim them at anything less than God, we ‘miss the mark.’ The great gift of John Paul II’s TOB is that it teaches us how to redirect our desires according to God’s design so we can reach our true destiny.”
— Christopher West, Our Bodies Proclaim the Gospel Study Guide
But the problem is, all too often, we get stuck on quick fixes and finite things. Our desires get distorted. And when they do, the ache becomes confusing. Even painful. We start to believe it’s the problem. But it’s not. It’s the pointer.
The ache is still speaking. We just need to learn how to listen.
This is exactly what Theology of the Body makes possible. It gives us a way to see desire clearly—not as something to suppress or indulge, but as something to redeem and direct. It teaches us that our bodies are not barriers to the divine. They’re invitations to communion.
“Being a Christian, then, means learning how to direct eros towards that which truly satisfies: the ‘nuptial union’ of Christ and the Church. In short, these heavenly nuptials are what we long for (desire); they’re what we’re created for (design); and they’re what we’re headed for (destiny).”
— Christopher West, Fill These Hearts
Too often, we’ve been handed a version of Christianity that feels disconnected from our real desires. A version that seems to ignore them—or worse, treat them like a threat. But what if we redeem desire? What if it’s meant to lead us to the One who gave us it too us in the first place?
This is the invitation that Theology of the Body opens up: to understand Christianity not as a cold moral system, but as God’s passionate desire for union with us, and our quest to satisfy our deepest longing in union with Him. When framed this way, the Gospel doesn’t shrink our humanity—it awakens it.
TOB shows us that the faith isn’t about escaping our desires. It’s about aiming them—so they can take us home.
“The rediscovery of the meaning of the whole of existence… the meaning of life.”
— St. John Paul II, TOB 46:6
This is not abstract theology. It’s a lived vision. TOB helps us recognize the ache for what it is, and then respond to it with clarity and hope. It helps us redirect desire where it was always meant to go—not toward things that fade, but toward the infinite love that satisfies.
You don’t have to silence the ache.
You don’t have to fear desire.
You have to learn to redirect it.
This is desire speaking.
And Theology of the Body is how we finally learn to listen.
Desire Is Speaking—Are You Ready to Respond?
The ache you feel isn’t a flaw. It’s desire speaking. It’s calling you to rediscover the meaning of your body, your story, and your life.
Your journey begins June 30 with TOB1 Online—a two-week guided experience featuring recorded teachings from Christopher West, hosted live by the TOB Institute staff. It’s the foundational course that opens your eyes to the language of the body—and what it reveals about God.
Want to go deeper?
The Summer Immersion Package begins with TOB1 Online and continues with an immersive, in-person course—Theology of the Body & the New Evangelization—taught live by Christopher West in a retreat setting. This is his favorite course to teach, and it’s your opportunity to experience TOB in its most powerful form.
One desire. Two phases. A whole new way of seeing.
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